Thinking About Starting Therapy? Here's What to Actually Expect
Whether you've never tried therapy, you've been putting it off, or you had a bad experience and aren't sure it's worth trying again — this post is for you. Here's what therapy actually looks like from the inside, and what to expect when you finally take that first step.
How to Stop People Pleasing — And How to Raise a Child Who Doesn't
People pleasing is one of the most common patterns I see in my work — and one of the quietest. It doesn't always look like weakness. Sometimes it looks like being agreeable, accommodating, easy to be around. But underneath it, there is often a person who has learned that their own needs come second. Here's how to start changing that — and how to make sure the next generation doesn't have to.
A Love Letter to the One We Lost: What Suicide Grief Taught Me and What I Want You to Know
This is not a post I planned to write. It is one that has lived in me for a while — in the quiet moments, in the weekly flash of his face that appears without warning. Written for everyone who has lost someone to suicide, and for anyone still carrying that grief quietly.
How to Co-Parent With Someone Who Hurt You
Co-parenting with someone who hurt you is one of the hardest things a person can be asked to do. But what children silently carry when they are caught in the middle is something every parent needs to understand — and something worth doing the hard work for.
When "Defiance" Is Really Fear: What I Learned From Losing My Patience as a Psychologist Mom
A psychologist and mom reflects on losing her patience during a hard week of potty training — and what it reminded her about the four things every parent should know: looking beneath the behavior, how our perception shapes our children, the power of repair, and why follow through matters just as much as saying sorry.
Why That Song Takes You Back: What Music Does to Your Brain and Your Mood
The science behind why music moves us — and how to use it intentionally in your life.